In 2017, the new regulations of the Ministry of Education will be handed over to the provinces to determine the deadline for enrollment. Prior to this, some parents did not allow their children to go to school one year later, and even chose to have a caesarean section before August 31. The new regulations relaxed the restrictions but caused a new round of controversy because of the specific date. From the child's prenatal education to marriage, Chinese parents are always chasing after the race, and they are always anxious when they fall behind.
However, life is not a sprint, nor a long-distance running. It is a marathon. The marathon has never been robbed, and "running" has no benefit to the child's body and mind. However, Chinese parents have long been chasing the "starting line" throughout their lives. However, where is the child's starting line? do you know?
Family is the most realistic starting line
First-class parents are role models, second-rate parents are coaches, and third-rate parents are nannies. After the child is born, the first contact is his own native family. The impact of the native family is the key to the child's starting line. In a family, children are stunned every day, and what they see is what you say and do , and they are all demonstrating.
The child's words and deeds are not taught, but are imitated after being influenced . Just as Confucius said that "their body is right, it is not allowed to do it; it does not matter, but it does not make it." A person's values, rules boundaries, behavioral standards, conservation quality, and habits are not based on preaching and coercion . It is the edification and imitation in life, and it is slowly formed in theory.
Therefore, on the way to running, the child must start by imitating your posture.
Love, give kids the motivation to run
Harvard's Child Development Center has published 13 white papers from 2004 to the present, saying that early education and development are related. It is said that the interaction between people is the active ingredient of the environment that affects children's development, and it is the only active ingredient. What children need most is a good interaction with the people who participate in his life.
The love and companionship of parents is a great motivation for children to grow on the road.
Suitable early family education for running
Parents are the first world of children, the first teacher of life, and the longest teacher. Parents influence the development of a child's life. French educator Frobel said: "The hand that pushes the cradle is the hand that pushes the earth."
Family education is of special importance before the child is 5 years old. Tolstoy once said: "From the time of birth to the age of 5, the child ingested from the surrounding world in terms of his wisdom, emotion, will and character, than he has been from 5 years old to the end of his life. It is many times more ingested."
Suitable early family education, fueling the children on the road of growing up!
Therefore, in order to save the parents who are always anxious in the catch-up education environment, let us start from ourselves and start from family education. We propose:
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dialogue
Learn to have a friendly and equal dialogue with your child.
When talking to your child, pay attention to your child's reaction, so after a few words, you can pause for a moment to see if your child is responding with an action or voice. Don't think that the child can't understand and give up. Even, you can often ask your child questions and take the initiative to provide opportunities for communication and interaction.
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read
Let's read the book with your child~
Maybe they don't understand the story or vocabulary meaning you convey, but they can also respond to the experience of reading. Moreover, a pleasant reading experience can also have an enlightening effect on the development of reading habits.
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explore
Don't stick your child for 24 hours, don't dare to relax for a while.
It is advisable to prepare a small independent space with a variety of toys, books, etc., and let the children explore alone and learn in the exploration environment while ensuring safety.
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